tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993145234602652065.post8758700976375438452..comments2023-10-25T10:51:24.340+00:00Comments on Indi: HotelIndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08053334760178183725noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993145234602652065.post-6092975208095098442012-01-07T10:10:47.435+00:002012-01-07T10:10:47.435+00:00nitebyrd ~ the hardest part for me is being firm.....nitebyrd ~ the hardest part for me is being firm.. it's not in my nature... I used to be a pushover, but am fed up of being pushed here there and everywhere so I've put my foot down. I caught my husband this morning sorting pout sons dry washing... I threw the clothes basket out of his hands n told him NOT to do it, we are not his servants! Son has to learn!!! Hard work but I don't give i that easily<br /><br /><br /><br />Indi<br /><br /><br />xIndihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08053334760178183725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993145234602652065.post-57148193035027638882012-01-05T13:42:34.252+00:002012-01-05T13:42:34.252+00:00I can so relate to what you're dealing with. M...I can so relate to what you're dealing with. My son and his girlfriend have been living with me for the past 6 months. <br /><br />Good on you for being strong and laying down the law!nitebyrdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04967190902623933068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993145234602652065.post-90500529885462297332011-12-31T17:14:19.714+00:002011-12-31T17:14:19.714+00:00Soren Ambrose ~ welcome ad thankyou for dropping i...Soren Ambrose ~ welcome ad thankyou for dropping in. Yes parenting can be a right royal pain some times. I should know I've had my fair share of it lately. In the past it was my husband who was the pain as he sided with his daughter.... against me, think he's had a re-think and is coming to terms with the ew situation...<br /><br /><br />Indi<br /><br /><br />xIndihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08053334760178183725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993145234602652065.post-28056177770093388222011-12-31T17:10:30.678+00:002011-12-31T17:10:30.678+00:00UBS ~ yeah the rules have chaged... 've just r...UBS ~ yeah the rules have chaged... 've just relaid the situatio to y mum dad, they are feelig sorry for me... I still feel like crap over this intrution of my home. The tables have turned. I will tell hubby later that he has to inform her that this is not going to be a perminent place of residence. Only until she finds other suitable accomidation. Bet you'd love to be a fly on that wall eh?<br /><br /><br />Indi<br /><br />xIndihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08053334760178183725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993145234602652065.post-75512408824847425602011-12-31T14:36:01.509+00:002011-12-31T14:36:01.509+00:00ZomBee ~ Oh I have laid down the law, last she li...ZomBee ~ Oh I have laid down the law, last she lived here it didn't really work, she used to know how to press my buttons and I fell for it every time, I've told her n her brother who's 24 that this is no longer a hotel or doss house... ya pay rent at he goin rate, if what I cook ya don't like... tough! there's one menu with what we have each day beit whatever, they don't like thy go buy somthin else and cook it...I'm more pissed off that she just turned up out of the blue complete with the cat!!! Which doesn't lie my cat!!<br /><br /><br /><br />Indi<br /><br /><br />xIndihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08053334760178183725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993145234602652065.post-91068747325653088762011-12-30T04:09:34.615+00:002011-12-30T04:09:34.615+00:00I can't speak in terms of parenting, but it...I can't speak in terms of parenting, but it's YOUR house, and what you and your husband say goes. Liking your style!<br /><br />~SorenSoren Ambrosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14972428116578887363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993145234602652065.post-52024576934357957612011-12-30T01:04:31.954+00:002011-12-30T01:04:31.954+00:00Good for you for letting her know there is only ON...Good for you for letting her know there is only ONE Queen Bee at your house- YOU!<br /><br />And yes, if she pulls her past crap you can kick her out. She is an adult with a good job and is not without means and resources for taking care of herself.<br /><br />She should not have even really come back at her age. r made it clear it was only whilst she looked for somewhere to live.UBERMOUTHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15428848028109037855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4993145234602652065.post-56724243494928566262011-12-30T01:02:01.220+00:002011-12-30T01:02:01.220+00:00Lay down the law and the ground rules. Listen with...Lay down the law and the ground rules. Listen with love and stick by your guns. Either she will cope or move back out. Either way you win. She will learn what it means to be a grownup. <br />It sucks hard but that's the way it goes.ZomBeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11349225506456782724noreply@blogger.com